St. Monica '09-'10

For me judgeging other people is a common practice here in the philippines. Although this is a democratic country in which one is entitled to his or her opinion there is a certain limitations to it Unless you are a judge then i must say you have the right to judge other people but then again u need evidence and facts to support your judgement. Why people do it? there could be a thousand reasons but the bottom line is one should take it positively and better themselves more than the people who judge them after all we cannot stop them from doing it. jehan dakhool

We judge others because of our self-righteousness that we compare our strengths to other people's weaknesses or flaws.
Being judgemental to other people may lead to chaos, hatred to one another or self-pitty.
We have no right to judge others because each and every one of us has their own weaknesses too.
To criticize other people is also like finding faults in their actions. Having positive thoughts of others can reprove
other people from judging one another.
Belittling others can surely hurt their feelings so we should be more aware in what we say to others.
Judging also depends in our thoughts and experiences with that particular person,but then again,it is better if we
say these to the person directly instead of telling it first to others as a rumor.
And also, as it is said in the Bible, people are made into God's OWN image and likeness so we are all created by God perfectly.
It is only our sins and wrong doings that make us feel incomplete and lost. :]

-------> CLASS NO. 35 <---------------------
-------> Paula Bianca C. Rosario <----------

mAybE sOme PerSoN DIdn't SeE rEgUlArLy oR tHaT PErSon jUSt iNsEcURe oF hIs/Her PeRsOnaliTy.sOmEtiMeS sOmE pEoPle SayInG thE PosItiVe / NeGaTiVe SiGHt Can REfLecT tO HiS/Her PErsOnAliTy.
It dEPenD to tHe pErSOn whO iS juDginG. cRItiZinG onE pErSoN cAn bE GooD oR bAd bEcAuSe iF tHe pERsOn cRitIZing otHer pEsOn with tHe pOsiTiVe siGhT it is ok bUt the persOn iS juDgINg WitH a nEGaTiVe sIde Of The OtHEr pErsOn I think it's no no to me.

--JaMie HerNanDez Cn 17 :)

Some people judge others maybe because they are insecure to that person or she/he wants to know that person better. It’s not good to criticize other people because it’s like belittling them. All people have their own imperfections. Nobody is perfect. But behind these imperfections we all have, we also have a good attitudes or traits. We shouldn’t always look at the imperfections of other people. We should always look at their positive or good traits that they have. We shouldn’t immediately reprove others without knowing their ‘true’ personality. But instead of reproving them, let’s just understand them and think that there is really no perfect person. And maybe, just maybe, we also got the imperfection of others that we don’t like. Almost all the people criticize others without knowing or thinking that they also have that ‘bad’ trait that they don’t like to other person or people that they criticized.

-the Bible says that “There is one lawgiver, who is able to save and to destroy. Who are you to judge another?” (James 4:12)


--Audriel Marjorie G. Escondo
#12

During my sixer's year, I was tempt to have a committment with a girl. Our relationship lasts for two months. After that, our adviser, Mrs. Gemma Losabia-Francisco knew about it. We got called at the guidance office and we talked about it. We both denied about our relationship during that time. After the talk, everything got back to normal. Everything's alright. We got free of that accusation. Then, a week before our third monthsary, we broke up. She broke up with me. She never explained why. She's not the one who personally broke up with me. Our common friend called me that night and told me about that. I really got mad at her that time. She never gave a reason for our breakup. We stopped our communication after our separation. Two months after, I've got the chance to makeup with her. I said sorry and she accepted it. Now, we remain good friends. I never regret to be a part of her life. Even though it turned out to be the worse day of my life.






-- Ciara Lei Santos
I-St. Monica