07/06/2009

why do people judge others ?

For me judgeging other people is a common practice here in the philippines. Although this is a democratic country in which one is entitled to his or her opinion there is a certain limitations to it Unless you are a judge then i must say you have the right to judge other people but then again u need evidence and facts to support your judgement. Why people do it? there could be a thousand reasons but the bottom line is one should take it positively and better themselves more than the people who judge them after all we cannot stop them from doing it. jehan dakhool

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Why do people judge others?

Some people judge others for they are: not as good as them; not as attractive as them; or they are jealous.

=Francesca Marie Olmos

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07/05/2009

why people judge other people



WHY DO PEOPLE JUDGE OTHER PEOPLE


It is a natural human tendency for people to judge other people. Basically, we do not see ourselves
as inadequate, imperfect, with flaws, but rather, we pinpont other people as such. It is easy for us to
say things, negative or not to others, than contemplate on our own weaknesses. Truth really hurts.
Acceptance is not something that we normally practice in our lives. But what we do not know is that
our judgement of others reflects the kind of person that we are. And no matter how we hate for being
judged, we cannot get rid of them.


Getting even is not the key to eliminate this bad habit but beginning the change in us, might help change
others as well. Isn't it nice to base our approach on how we wish to be treated ourselves - WITH RESPECT.
Emphatizing with others and understanding why they react differently ours would help. Being calm and never
reacting on impulse would definitely improve our relationship with others. There are still lots of things that
would help us avoid judging other people such as, not saying anything that comes to our head at once,
believing that we are always right and only our opinion matters. we should resist the need to say bad things
at all times specially when we feel we are losing control. patience and tolerance should play a major role in
our change.


SELENA MARY RAE S. EVORA

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WHY DO WE JUDGE OTHERS? //2nd journal

We judge others because of our self-righteousness that we compare our strengths to other people's weaknesses or flaws.
Being judgemental to other people may lead to chaos, hatred to one another or self-pitty.
We have no right to judge others because each and every one of us has their own weaknesses too.
To criticize other people is also like finding faults in their actions. Having positive thoughts of others can reprove
other people from judging one another.
Belittling others can surely hurt their feelings so we should be more aware in what we say to others.
Judging also depends in our thoughts and experiences with that particular person,but then again,it is better if we
say these to the person directly instead of telling it first to others as a rumor.
And also, as it is said in the Bible, people are made into God's OWN image and likeness so we are all created by God perfectly.
It is only our sins and wrong doings that make us feel incomplete and lost. :]

-------> CLASS NO. 35 <---------------------
-------> Paula Bianca C. Rosario <----------

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Why Do People Judge Others?

Why Do People Judge Others?

I think people judge others because these people doesn't want their imperfections to be noticed. And sometimes they criticize people because they envy the person they criticize. Critism has bad effects on people for example the person who is criticized might lose his/her self-esteem. People who criticize others reproves other's acheivements. Derogatory means belittling. And people shouldn't belittle other people because we are ALL created equally by God.





Angeli Naomi R. Peralta 30
I-St.Monica
July 5, 2009
Journal#2

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Why do people judge others?

Why do people judge others?


In my personal opinion
People judge others because of their physical appearance or any mistakes that can person do. But we should look in positive way, if we look in negative way the person that feels will be hurt we should be careful to that person that you’re judging or elder to us.


I judge people for the reason that I saw something in him/her in a way that if it based on my standard she/he meet mine. Another point is if I hear a lot of things about that person …I will make my conclusion in my mind …just like a benefit.







#38
Ma. Theresa C. Singson
l-St. Monica
English
Journal#2

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Judging Others

People judge others in many ways. People judge others because of many things. These are the possible answers to why people judge others. People judge others because of the negative things they see on that person. We can't deny it, sometimes we first see the negative side and not the opposite of it. Some people though criticize people by their looks and so it gives them the idea whether he/she is good or bad, talented or not, smart or a slow-learner. While some people are influenced by others, maybe from what they hear from other crowds and so they go with the flow. We can often hear criticism from elders and so younger ones do it because they hear it from them. People judge others because they don't want to be judged. I said this, because maybe some people just want other to be reprimanded of something.

In my opinion, I think we can't blame those people because all of us has its imperfection. Judging also depends on us, but for me, it's better if we judge people for them to be a better person and not to degrade them. But in majority, judging isn't good it is because people should be given a right amount of time to prove who they think they are inside. We shouldn't stick to the first impression of a person. Instead of judging someone, accept the person's personality. It is because in the end, judging might lead us into nowhere.

45 Lei Raiza A. Zervoulakos

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Judging Others...

Judging others can be good or bad, it depends on the charater and situation of people being judged and the one who is judging. People have imperfections too. Reproving people from judging others can not be controlled, because sometimes we are not aware of what we say and what we do. But then again, we must always be careful of what we say and do.

Belittling others can hurt their feelings. Criticism is a bad habit that we do to tell other people who they are to themselves and to us. Saying derogatory words can make them feel worse about themselves and to other people. That is why judging others still depends on the you.

Josephine Yumang
English Journal # 2
C.N. 44

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--why do people judge others?

People judge others because they look at the physical appearance of a person. They don't bother to look at the positive side of a person that's why they always see the imperfections of others. Criticism can be good or bad. Some people criticize others because they want to change the person for better, While other people criticize because of jealousy. They want to make that certain person to feel bad like giving them derogatory comments. I reprove that.

For me, judging others is just okay. But don't judge someone by his/her physical appearance. Always look at the inner side of a person. It doesn't always mean that if a person is beautiful, he/she has a good heart. So before you judge someone, be sure to know that person well and look first at you own imperfections before criticizing others.


CN:16
--Chloe Gatmaitan
I-St. Monica

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wHy dO wE jUDgE oTHeRs?!...

mAybE sOme PerSoN DIdn't SeE rEgUlArLy oR tHaT PErSon jUSt iNsEcURe oF hIs/Her PeRsOnaliTy.sOmEtiMeS sOmE pEoPle SayInG thE PosItiVe / NeGaTiVe SiGHt Can REfLecT tO HiS/Her PErsOnAliTy.
It dEPenD to tHe pErSOn whO iS juDginG. cRItiZinG onE pErSoN cAn bE GooD oR bAd bEcAuSe iF tHe pERsOn cRitIZing otHer pEsOn with tHe pOsiTiVe siGhT it is ok bUt the persOn iS juDgINg WitH a nEGaTiVe sIde Of The OtHEr pErsOn I think it's no no to me.

--JaMie HerNanDez Cn 17 :)

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