07/06/2009
why do people judge others ?
For me judgeging other people is a common practice here in the philippines. Although this is a democratic country in which one is entitled to his or her opinion there is a certain limitations to it Unless you are a judge then i must say you have the right to judge other people but then again u need evidence and facts to support your judgement. Why people do it? there could be a thousand reasons but the bottom line is one should take it positively and better themselves more than the people who judge them after all we cannot stop them from doing it. jehan dakhool
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Why do people judge others?
Some people judge others for they are: not as good as them; not as attractive as them; or they are jealous.
=Francesca Marie Olmos
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07/05/2009
why people judge other people
WHY DO PEOPLE JUDGE OTHER PEOPLE
It is a natural human tendency for people to judge other people. Basically, we do not see ourselves
as inadequate, imperfect, with flaws, but rather, we pinpont other people as such. It is easy for us to
say things, negative or not to others, than contemplate on our own weaknesses. Truth really hurts.
Acceptance is not something that we normally practice in our lives. But what we do not know is that
our judgement of others reflects the kind of person that we are. And no matter how we hate for being
judged, we cannot get rid of them.
Getting even is not the key to eliminate this bad habit but beginning the change in us, might help change
others as well. Isn't it nice to base our approach on how we wish to be treated ourselves - WITH RESPECT.
Emphatizing with others and understanding why they react differently ours would help. Being calm and never
reacting on impulse would definitely improve our relationship with others. There are still lots of things that
would help us avoid judging other people such as, not saying anything that comes to our head at once,
believing that we are always right and only our opinion matters. we should resist the need to say bad things
at all times specially when we feel we are losing control. patience and tolerance should play a major role in
our change.
SELENA MARY RAE S. EVORA
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